Tuesday, October 23, 2007

My Grandma


Tonight, I thought that I'll write about my grandma since I just visited here over the weekend. This is my grandma. My favourite grandma! Not that I have many grandmas. My grandma lives in China now. You must be wondering why is my grandma living in China, right? Let me tell you the history of my grandma and history of me too.

My grandma is 84 years now. She was born in 1923 in Liao Bu in Dongguan. When she was 14 years old, she left China to go to Singapore to work. She must have been very brave to do that. She worked as a cleaner. At 20, she married my grandfather. They fell in love and got married. They had a daughter who I call Aunty. A few years later, they adopted my mother. So my grandparents are not my real parents but my adoptive grandparents but they love us a lot. My grandfather was not from China. He was a Baba which is also known as a Straits Chinese.The Babas are descendants of Chinese immigrants that settled in the Malay archipelago as early as the 17th century. Intermarriage with the native peoples of the region was common and engendered a unique culture that combined various traditions and customs. So both of them were very different.

When we were young, my parents will bring us to visit my grandparents every weekend. My grandma cooks the best Chinese soups. Very yummy! Over the years, grandpa passed away and grandma decided that she wants to return to her hometown to live as she misses her home. To grandma, China is still her home. So she returned. Of course, we were sad and we did not want her to go back to China as we will not be able to see her as often as we would like to. But now that I live in Hong Kong. I try to see grandma at least once in 2 months. I have to make an effort to see Grandma more as she's getting old and she gets sick more often. I miss her soups as she doesn't cook as often now that she's rather old.

Write and tell me about your grandparents. You must love your grandparents as much as I love my grandparents.

60 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,

Thanks for sharing your family history background with us. Thanks for reminding us to love and look after our parents and grandparents. Generally speaking, people in Hong Kong are too busy to visit or to talk to their parents or grandparents. They often have a lot of excuses. They may find difficulties in communicating with them. They think that there is a great generation gap between them. Sometimes they even scold them. I hope we need to learn from you. We must try our best to communicate with them, listen to them and love them. Therefore, we will not regret when they pass away.

Tam sir

Faith At Kei Wai said...

Dear Tam Sir,

Yes, I agree with you about regretting when they pass away. I don't want to have any regrets when my grandma pass away one day. I believe that it is more important in treating her well now when she's still alive rather than to cry loudly or have regrets when she's gone. Therefore it's important for me to see her and talk to her before she leaves for heaven.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,

It's nice to know more about you and your grandmother. I know that it takes you three hours to go to your grandmother's home. However, you visit her regularly. We have to learn from you. Unluckyly, my grandmother died when I was still a student. We were very close then. I always stayed at her home at weekends.I was so sad when she left us. I learnt that life is really short and we must be good to those whom we love when we still get the chance.

Hope your grandmother have good health .
Miss Dit

Faith At Kei Wai said...

Dear Ms Dit,

I'm sorry to hear that your grandma has passed away. Life is really short and we should treasure the people that we love when they are still around.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,
i am happy to know more about your grandma.i want to share me grandma to you too,i love my grangma very much.she is very kind of me.but sometime i will hate her because she often say a lot of principle i am impatient when she was saying more and more principle.
my grandma have good merit.her merit is she cooking very well.
i am so happy to talk to you in the blog.

5c(30)
virginia

Anonymous said...

That's great!!!!

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,
Thanks your photo.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,
My grandma has already lived for 30 years in Chaiwan.She is 62 years old.She is kind.She likes eating and playing mahjong.I often visit her on Sunday and we go shopping together.She always comes to my home to make delicious food for me and stays at my home.I love her very much.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,

I'm sorry to hear your grandma passed away. I sure you are very miss her,but don't be so unhappy!

Although my grandma is here,but have a one day she will pass,so I
will very unhappy too !But the mankind wil pass ,when they are old , so you must know this principle!

Don't be so unhappy!!!

5C-
WENDY

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,
i am happy to hear about you grandmother,i hope you will healthly,i am sure you are very miss her,my grandma is 64 years old,she born in 1943,she was very young and beautiful when she was young,i think your grandma was beautiful when she young.if you miss her???i think you can call her if you miss her very!!

5c(25)
wendy

Anonymous said...

I am very happy to see your family history background because many Hong Kong pelope don't visit their parents and grandparents.
Thank you!!!

Faith At Kei Wai said...

Wendy from 5C,

My grandma has not passed away. She's still around. But both my grandpas have passed away. I do miss them. I regret not talking to them more to find out and understand them more.

Faith

Anonymous said...

(I am alpha5c)
your grandmotmother is realy beautiful and preety. She is realy old. the poem is very nice too. I like the Chung Yeung Festival because we can go hiking and i am tierd and i can sleep a long...long... time and if i go hiking at 12 p.m., i can sleep from 5 o'clock to eight o'clock and i eat the dinner and sleep.

Alpha
5c(10)
24-10 2007

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,
I like my grandmother and grandfather very much.They are very kind.My grandfather died when I was still a little girl.Mum and Dad was sad.My grandmother was sad too.

Anonymous said...

DEARMISS FAITH,
HOW IS SHE NOW ? IS SHE OK?
PLEASE ASK HER TO ANSWER ME
SABRINA

Anonymous said...

DEAR MISS FAITH,
CAN YOU TELL HER SHE IS PRETTIEST PERSON THAT I SEEN BEFORE
SABRINA

Anonymous said...

the thoto is you and your grandmather?

Anonymous said...

Dear:Miss Faith:
What do you like eat?Can you tell me

Anonymous said...

Dear Mrs Faith,
Your grandma very nice and I am happy to hear your family history background.

Gerda Cheng

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,
Today, I am very tired. It is because I have a lot of homework.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith
Don't be so unhappy. I know you can cook a lot of yummy food so I think you can teach her to cook some simple food.
Keep your happy smilely face!!!


Albert

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,

Thank you for your family history with us. I have a grandmother too! I love her because she is a good friend for me. When she young she was a engineer. She build a lost of famous house but sorry I didn’t remember what’s the house name. I think she must work hard to do that for me it’s difficult, I will think ’’ Oh, my God.’’ I was so embarrassed about me did not always visit her and also do not talk to her usually. I hope I can talk to her more often.
Thanks for you reminding our old people. I hope we could always have a happy day with them.

Vivien

P.S I hope my grammar will be good.

Anonymous said...

My grandmather and father are die,but I love them all,I hope they can hear.I hope my classmates will love there grandmather and father or respect them.

Anonymous said...

Dear faith,

Hello!I am sorry to here about you grandpa had passed away.My grandpa is very old now.He is 89 years old. And also I like my family very much because they're good at me.

Anonymous said...

Dear faith,

I am sorry to here about your grandpa passed away.My grandpa is very old now.He's 89 years old.
I love them very much.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,
My grandma lives in China too.I love my grandma because she is kind.I seldom visit my grandma because my grandma live in China but I live Hong Kong.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,

I am happy to know about your
grandma.
My grandma and grandpa is sixty-five years old.They live in Wong Tai Sin.When we have holidays,I will go to see them.
I go to sleep now.Bye!!

Joshua Luk,5c23 ^^J

Faith At Kei Wai said...

Sabrina,

Thanks for the concern. My grandma is out of the hospital already. We might go visit her next Saturday. I can't go this Saturday because I have to be in school.

Faith At Kei Wai said...

Angela from 5D,

Yes, the photo is of my grandma and me. I like to eat different kinds of food and cuisine. I love trying different kinds of food.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,


I'm happy to know more your grandma. I love my grandma too. Father; mother and I visit my grandma every Sunday. We go to restaurant eat lunch and dinner.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,


I always eat the dinner with my grandmather.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,

I am happy to krow about you and your grandmother.I want to tell you about my grandmother too!My grandmother is nice to everyone especially me.Every friday,I will go to my grandmother's home to visit her.She always cooks my favourite food for me .She is good at cooking.

I am happy to tell you about my grandmother in your blog!

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,

I am happy to know about your grandma.My grandma live with me.She is 80 years old.She is very kind.She cooking very well,she always cook some yummy food to me.
I love my grandma very much.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,

Oh,your grandma is 84 years old.She likes to go back to her original 'birthing place'to settle. But my grandma is 75 years old right now. She is quite different from your grandma as she is quite active, to my point of view. She learnt swimming when she was at age of 62. She also goes to have Chinese tea every morning with her friends, goes shopping and sightseeing everywhere. In addition, she likes new things and grasp chances to play 'majong'.

Jensen Chan

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,

I like my grandmother and grandfather very much. They are very nice. My grandmother dies when I was still a little girl. Mum and Dad were sad. My grandmother was sad too.
October27, 2007 11:47 AM

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,
I am Avis.I am going to tell you about my grandfather.
My grandfather is a sailor when he was young.So he knows many fish's name.And he likes to eat fish too.He is strong but he is seventy-four years old now!He walks fast too.h always takes care of me when my parents go to work.
I like talking to you about my grandfather.I hope I can tell more about me to you in the future.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,
How is your grandmother now? My grandmother is 76 years old now.She is very gently.We like her very much .

Anonymous said...

Wing Kei said:
Dear Faith,

I am happy to hear that your family history background.
Let's talk about my grandma.My grandma always sanguine.She talk to us very nice.She is 68 years old.She looks young ,but she can't walk too long per day.Because her feet doesn't good at all.So when i done my homework ,i must go to vist her.Take some health food to her and talk to her very much.
I love her very much.

Hope your grandparents have good health.

Wing Kei

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith:

Oh,your mother is very good!I am very admire your mother.I am want to my grandmother all long life.Wish you grandmother will very very very long life!!!!!!!!!!!

5C07Peter

xoliza said...

Dear Faith,

Your passage is very meaningful and touching. I've been moved. We've learnt much from your message. Your message has taught us how to love our family.

Miss Wong

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith:
I am happy to hear about your grandmother.My grandmother only have one people but she is happy because her friends always play with her,so she is very happy at home.

Faith At Kei Wai said...

Dear Avis,

Thanks for sharing with me about your grandfather. I wished I asked my grandfathers more questions when they were still around. I never got to know them well enough.

Anonymous said...

Don't be unhappy!

Anonymous said...

Yes, I agree with you about regretting when they pass away. I don't want to have any regrets when my grandma pass away one day. I believe that it is more important in treating her well now when she's still alive rather than to cry loudly or have regrets when she's gone. Therefore it's important for me to see her and talk to her before she leaves for heaven.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,

It's nice to know more about you and your grandmother. I know that it takes you three hours to go to your grandmother's home. However, you visit her regularly. We have to learn from you. Unluckyly, my grandmother died when I was still a student. We were very close then. I always stayed at her home at weekends.I was so sad when she left us. I learnt that life is really short and we must be good to those whom we love when we still get the chance.

Hope your grandmother have good health .



Jeffrey Lo

Anonymous said...

I hope your grandma won't be sick.

Anonymous said...

Hi,how old are your grandmother.

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,
I like eat the mango and the apple.you like eat this food?

Faith At Kei Wai said...

Ben from 5D,

My grandma is about 84 years old. My mum just called and she told me to call my grandma tomorrow as it is her birthday tomorrow.

Faith At Kei Wai said...

Dear everyone,

Thanks so much for your concern. My grandma is lots better now. She's out of the hospital. We're planning to visit her soon again. Thanks for your prayers too!

Anonymous said...

I am happy to know more about your grandmother. I love my grandmother so much. She is very kind to everyone. She never shouts at anyone.

She lives with me. She always cook my favour food for me. She is good at cooking.

I am happy to talk to you in your blog.

Anonymous said...

Do not unhappy and you alike your grandmother





5e 10 Anson Chung

Anonymous said...

I am sorry to hear your grandpas have passed.Don t be so unhappy!

Anonymous said...

Is you grandmother well ?
Thank for your sharing ! ^^

5E Serena

Faith At Kei Wai said...

Serena from 5E,

Thanks for your concern, my grandma is heaps better now.

Anonymous said...

I will love my grandpa and grandma !

Anonymous said...

I will love my grandpa and grandma!

Wrote by Fung Hok Nam(5E)

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,

Today I am very happy because I will go to Pizza hut to eat pizza.My mother, sister and my mother's sister will go there with me too.Do you like to eat pizza?I love it very much.If you want to eat,you can go to Pizza hut any time.

Anonymous said...

How are you?

Anonymous said...

Dear Faith,

I hope you will not be unhappy.


5e(26)